Be Faithful In A Relationship

Once upon a time, there was a man named John who was married to a woman named Mary. John and Mary had been together for many years and had built a happy life together. They had a beautiful home, successful careers, and a loving family. However, despite all of this, John began to feel restless and started to have thoughts of cheating on Mary.

At first, John tried to push these thoughts aside and ignore them. But as time went on, the temptation grew stronger and he found himself starting to act on his desires. He began going out with other women, lying to Mary about where he was going and who he was with. Eventually, Mary found out about John’s infidelity and was devastated.

The revelation of John’s affair tore their marriage apart. Mary felt betrayed and hurt, unable to trust her husband again. John realized too late that his actions had consequences, and that his momentary pleasure was not worth losing the person he loved most in the world.

In the end, John and Mary were able to work through their issues and rebuild their relationship, but it was not easy. John had to work hard to regain Mary’s trust and prove that he was committed to their marriage. Through this experience, John learned that being faithful to the person you love is incredibly important. Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship, and once it is broken, it can be very difficult to repair.

So, the story of John and Mary serves as a reminder that we need to be faithful in our relationships, not just because it is the right thing to do, but because it is essential for building a strong and healthy partnership.

The cat and the pig

The pig and the cat are good friends.

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One day, the cat fell into a big pit, the pig brought the rope to her,
The Cat said , thrown it down piggy. Then the pig threw the whole rope to the cat .
The cat was so depressed, she thought he would just drop one side of the rope then pull her up . “Really ? Throw it like that how do you expect to pull me up?” Said the cat. The pig said: “ok so what should I have done ?” The cat said: “you should hold one side of the rope!” The pig said : “got you !” At the same time he jumped into the pit and grabbed one side of the rope said to the cat: “like this ?”

Suddenly all the depression from cat was gong , she started crying and laughing, she felt she was the happiest cat in the world because She has a truly good friend, he maybe not clear what’s happening but he’s staying with her in the mess.

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The bunny’s love story

There was a white bunny, when she had grown up, she didn’t just expect more carrots, she was starting to expect romantic relationships.

There was a gray bunny who cares about the white bunny alot, he always brought lots of carrots to her, but she wasn’t sure if he was the right one for her.

She wanted to enrich her life and find her love, so she said goodbye to him and carried lots of carrots, went to the deep forest.

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The first one she met was a goose, she felt that the goose is so attractive, so they fell in love.

But soon she felt she couldn’t keep up with the goose, when he was flying she had to keep running and always looking up, she was tired and confused if the relationship was right.

One day, the goose said he is leaving, he can’t bear that she can’t fly with him.

The white bunny was so sad, that was her first relationship, she cried and then told herself that means the goose is not the right one.

After the break up, the white bunny met a bear. The bear wasn’t her type, but the bear said because the forest is dangerous to her, so he will stay with her to protect her until she finds her right one.

The bear treated her so well, when the weather got cold, he would put her into the hole in the tree and use his body to block the wind for her, when they didn’t get enough food, he would save his dinner as her breakfast for the second morning….

After a while, the white bunny thought: the bear is really good to me, but I don’t want someone block the wind for me. I want someone who can cuddle with me when it’s cold, and I don’t like his food either….

At the meantime, the bear met a fox. The fox is beautiful, she directly told the bear that she likes him and wants to be with him. The bear told the white bunny: “I don’t like the fox, I still want to be with you.” But one day in the morning when the white bunny woke up, she couldn’t find the bear anywhere, she knew he left with the fox without saying goodbye.

The white bunny started packing to hit the road alone, she found there’s more carrots than before, she thought: finally the bear fingered out what I really like, but he had left. I don’t think he’ll come back to me.

On a rainy night, the white bunny met a wolf, she knew she would get hurt to be with the wolf, but she couldn’t help to fall in love with him, although she had to be cautious all the time.

Yes, she was been hurt in that relationship like she already knew at the very beginning.

Luckily or finally, on another rainy night, the wolf told her:” just get out of my face, I’m tired of you!”

The white bunny packed again, she didn’t have much carrots left. She sat under a big tree and thought: should I keep going or just stay here and enjoy the scenery. I shouldn’t fell in love with the wolf, maybe I shouldn’t had started this forest journey to find my love. I don’t even know what love is….

She reminisced about the past being with the gray bunny, but she was so far away from their old place.She was not sure if she could go back there again.

Suddenly, she heard a rustling noise behind the tree, when she wrapped her head around the tree to check, there’s the gray bunny putting more carrots in her bag….

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The Difference Between Like And Love In a Relationship

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Liking someone is more like enjoyment to make yourself happy. Loving someone is more like a responsibility to make the person you love happy.

Liking someone is when the relationship is getting hard you may give up and go find a new one. Loving someone is even when you know this relationship is going to be hard, you still try your best to fix it, for keeping them to stay with you.

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Liking someone is conditional, if you can’t get anything in return you may give up. but loving someone is unconditional, you want to give your best or anything they love to them, even you know there is nothing that will be returned.

Liking someone is you enjoy the present with them. Loving someone is you enjoy the present and also plan the future with them.

You can like a few people at the same time, but you only love one at a time.

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7 signs that you are falling in love 

1 you can’t stop thinking of them

When you are driving alone on a long trip or waiting in a huge line to pay your grocery, it’s not boring time anymore, even your boss being negative to you or a gloomy day. . . does not matter at all! Because when you are thinking of someone time flies and a big smile appears.

2 want to know more about them

You stay on their social media for hours to check all the public posts they have posted and the comments people have left. You are curious about things that in their life before you. You do your best to give a like or comment on their posts as soon as possible. Any pictures, music or movies have shown on their profile, you will seriously go through and over think the meaning behind.

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3 bring them up into any conversations with others

Any topics with others will be related to someone who is in your mind all the time.

For example: 

Friend: I want to go to Japan for my vacation.

You: great! Ann just got back from Tokyo, she showed me lots of wonderful pictures. . . 

Or like that:

Friend: Cold winter is coming, my hibernating time is started.

You: Ann loves winter, she said everyone dresses like a teddy bear in winter, that’s cute huh?

4 constantly check your phone to see if anything from them

When your phone keeps silent, you will check out if anything is wrong, you are always expecting something from someone, five minutes seem like five hours long.

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5 prepare your words before phone calls

You practice over and over again before you finally call or message them, you want them to know you are always here for them, you want to keep a comfy position that can be getting closer safely, you don’t want to pressure them or freak them out at the very hazy beginning.

6 update tiny things of your life to them

you are more perceptual and enthusiastic now, you want to tell them anything new of your life.your flower started blooming this afternoon, your dog barking like crazy, there’s a new restaurant just opened downstairs. . . 

7 after matched 6 signs above and you still keep thinking of the same person, then yes! You are falling in love with him/her!

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